"Hey, can I sit here?" you ask
"Whatever, do what you like, why should we care", says a guy with long scraggly hair. He turns back to his friends who are discussing something you can't quite hear.
"Excuse me, I'd like to join your social grouping"
"What?" says one of the slackers.
"I too am a slacker and would like to join you."
"Dude, stop being gay", says another, slightly taller one also with scraggly hair.