Letting God who is LOVE form LOVE in you.
Your thoughts are unstable when your in love with someone. So what do you trust in? Feelings when your hormones are out of control. Some wise person once told me to be myself. To not be ashamed of who I was. Well, I'm not sure any of us know who we really are. Or were meant to be in God's sight. That stuff takes a lifetime.
So the question is exciting can one love really love without consulting LOVE Himself. We Christians believe that God is LOVE all kinds. Because He made all kinds of Love. So do we care what God thinks? That's a question that we all answer for ourselves.
Is God mean and hateful? Is God wanting to keep something from us? A lot of questions I know. I'm just thinking outloud.