My personal experience and letting go!
It’s amazing how strength comes in different shapes to a person you actually never thought they could handle winds of life, YOU.
Thought my biological father was senseless, leave your child alone to grow and not even extend your hand to find out what an awesome Person they grown into. My father loved me to bits to a point I did not believe he was not my blood, until extended family pointed it out to me.
The problem is they never realized the anger brewing, why did you tell me and why now!
My bio aunt tried to explain who my father was and how disappointed that he had a child while married to their sister in law, what does that have to do with me?, at that moment I realized we welcome you, meant please don’t come again we are trying to heal the wound he left behind.
Rejection hurts like crazy, but it is also a learning curve. At my age , two kids, and for the love of me I cannot just see me separated from them, unless they grow up or God intervenes.
Not having a father in once life is hard you look for it in every man you see, this could be dangerous.
Love who you are broken or strong, they really missed out on the best thing that has ever happened to them YOU.
I could have turned bad, because of stepfathers like mine, who sends ripple’s that heels and I pray that men out there become a fraction of what he was to me. A father like no other.
P.S its not your fault he left you, but it is your fault for not giving yourself a chance!