"Not all those who wander are lost" Never let anyone tell you what you can and can not do because they do not write your story you do.The do not live your life you do. The dont walk your path or see things how you do. So the next time someone tells you what to do you ask them if they know you. Not what they think to be you but they real you. Like how you think and act and in the end the answer should be no unless they read minds or tell you what the year after next will look like.